Dream, dream, dream

[serafina20]

I had a dream last night that I bumped into a friend who I no longer talk to. She decided to help me with something (I was apparently on some sort of quest), and was acting all friendly and nice. I was friendly back, but then I realized she thought that this meant we were friends again. I had no idea what to do, because even though I wasn't angry with her anymore, the underlying issues that led up to our "breaking-up" were still there, and I didn't want to be her friend.

It was strange. Normally, when I dream about old friends with whom I've fought, the dreams are full of anger and pain, even if I've made up with them. This wasn't. Huh.

Comments

[elychari.livejournal.com]

I didn't want to be her friend.

sorry. i hate butting into someone else's private life but if you aren't angry with her anymore, what's wrong with being friends?

they say our dreams reflect our subconscious desires. perhaps you want to be friends with her again? or at least resolve the "underlying issues". :)

[serafina20.livejournal.com]

perhaps you want to be friends with her again?

No. I don't. Just because you're not angry with someone doesn't mean that you should be friends. She and I should not be friends, end of story. That's what the dream was about. The anger has gone (maybe), but I'm still cognizant of the fact I don't want to associate with her.

[elychari.livejournal.com]

Just because you're not angry with someone doesn't mean that you should be friends.

I guess. *g* don't be mad at me. i can't imagine being mad at someone and not being friends. i admire you, in a way coz i'm just a push-over when it comes to stuff like that. i end up forgiving people coz i can't stand being not friends with them.