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[serafina20]

Did you know that in order to be really gay, lesbian, or bisexual, you need a reason? And "I'm attracted to girls" isn't really a reason, according to one of my supervisors, which was quickly backed up by San Fransisco co-worker who said all of her gay friends had a reason, like bad experiences with men (or women) or molestation, etc. The ones whose "only" reason is that they are attracted to the same sex are going to wake up one day and realize that they were mistaken.

I wish I was interested in debating, but damn if them getting louder and louder while they say the same damn things *doesn't* win them the fucking argument. I learned that when I used to try and explain "Angel" plots. They don't listen, don't hear, and it's just not worth it.

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[ingridmatthews.livejournal.com]

I wonder how come all my shitty experiences with women didn't turn me straight.

If that were the case, I'd be a man-shagging maniac by now -- not just a Slightly Considering MR In My Imagination one. ;)

Or is that because the fairer sex is always so much kinder, gentler and eternally more loving to their honies and men are always the Big Bad Guys Who Are Evvvil?

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Only not.

PS: I was never molested either.

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[serafina20.livejournal.com]

I wonder how come all my shitty experiences with women didn't turn me straight.

And why have none of *their* bad expericnes with me (and they've had a lot) "turned" them gay?

I was just surpised to hear their views on it. To my way of thinking is if you need a reason beyond attraction, it's not as real. I was surprised to hear it the other way around.

[ellenore.livejournal.com]

Hee! Word. :)