Bi, Not Curious
Feb. 10th, 2004 07:51 pmI've never been bi-curious, only bi-sexual. There are moments when I feel more like a bi-sexual lesbian, but even in my "straighter" moments, it's not curiosity that makes me bi. I mean, I'm not curious about being in a relationship with women, or having sex with women. I *want* to. I even, I suppose, want to have sex with men (can you tell I'm in a bi-lesbian mode right now?;)
So, for me, bi-curious was never an issue, even when other bi-sexual or lesbian women told me I couldn't say I was bi until I'd tried it. I know what I want. Who I want. Who I'm attracted to. It's never been about curiosity. It's always been about attraction.
So, for me, bi-curious was never an issue, even when other bi-sexual or lesbian women told me I couldn't say I was bi until I'd tried it. I know what I want. Who I want. Who I'm attracted to. It's never been about curiosity. It's always been about attraction.