Need some advice

So, last night at critique group, one of the women told me that my characters didn't have enough inner life and she'd like to see xyz and a bunch of other stuff. All fair criticisms.

But then, when giving feedback to another writer (who happens to be a published author with an editor working on her third book), the woman said, "That's what I was trying to get across to Sera, and you do it so, so well. Your characters always have just so much life to them."

And I felt that was... kind of uncalled for and hurtful. Especially since I'm not the only writer in the group struggling with this, and I don't think I should have been called out like this.

I was thinking of sending an e-mail to her that said:

I was felt really called out last night when you used my writing weaknesses to spotlight E's strength. It felt really uncalled for and hurtful. I'd appreciate it if, in the future, you just focus on the other's strengths without highlighting what I'm trying to work on.

So... is that okay, or should I just let it be?